IBA SUCCESS MAGAZINE Issue 2 Vol 4 | Page 58

ON THE SCENE n EVENTS Ladies of Destiny By Carmel Lafayette G rowing up as a young Caribbean American living in Brooklyn New York, my exposure to extra curricular activities was limited. It was during my youth, though, that I experienced some young women who forever changed the course of my life. Girls from a neighboring high school would teach us steps that they learned while performing shows. I fell in love with the art of stepping and vowed to always have it incorporated into my life. Everything changed when I met Dr. Shanta Barton-Stubbs and the young ladies of the New Image Youth Center (NIYC). My company, Ipose Media, was hired in 2015 to cover videography at an event for a charity called the Princess Ball which is an annual daddy daughter dance. When we arrived, I noticed a group of beautiful African American Girls, about 10 of them sitting at a table. For 10 years they’d been selected to receive free tick- ets to the ball. It was easy to spot them as they were the only girls of color in the room. I was immediately drawn to them and was curious to know who they were. 56 IBA Success Magazine n VOL 4, Issue 2 At the end of the ball every year, the DJ plays a sweet daddy daughter song and all of the little girls in attendance danced with their fathers. The NIYC girls stood on the edge of the dance floor as they did not have enough chaperones for every individual girl and watched the others