IBA SUCCESS MAGAZINE Issue 2 Vol 4 | Page 38

COVER STORY Jennifer Yon Publisher, IBA Success Magazine I I meet a lot of people in my travels throughout Central Florida and for many of them I am the picture of confidence. They aren’t wrong, but the journey to my present day self was painful. In 1993 I was sixteen, pregnant and severely overweight. Even in the early 90’s, teen moms weren’t all that common and it contributed to my esteem struggles. Already unsure of myself, I had difficulties fitting in and was unsure of how and if I could relate to my peers. Being a young mother wasn’t as much of a challenge as my weight. I felt a general uncleanliness, not literally, but emotionally. The image of the naked girl who looked back at me from my mirror had been abused sexually, emotionally and verbally to the point where I began to believe I deserved the abuse. Every pound was a painful memory. I prayed, and that very same day, I experienced a blessing. A breath of fresh air looked me in the face and spoke clearly enough for me to hear her through my loud, anguished sobs. “You’re not dead yet,” were the words that I heard pour from a stranger’s mouth. Clearly led by what I now know was God’s influence, she lifted my spirits, and in an instant convinced me that there was hope. It was 2013 and my life was about to change. 36 IBA Success Magazine n VOL 4, Issue 2 At my heaviest, I was 387 pounds. My doctor actually said, “Get out of my office, you’re going to die anyway,” because I walked through his door sipping what was my favorite dessert — an Oreo McFlurry! I was distraught. I felt alone, and like a failure. As I sat in my car with the windows up, I contemplated suicide.