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SHAKERS & MOVERS n ENTREPRENEURSHIP The New Female Entrepreneur By Dr. Rollan Roberts II S teve Jobs. Mark Cuban. Jeff Bezos. Bill Gates. Mark Zuckerberg. Elon Musk. Notice what’s missing from the highest entrepreneurial profiles of our age? Women! This truly is the dawning of the Age of the Female Entrepreneur. More and more women are understanding the incredible independence and identity that is found through entrepreneurship and embracing it like never before. It is not because there’s a glass ceiling. Twenty years ago, calling yourself an entrepreneur or consultant was code for unemployed. Being an entrepreneur wasn’t cool back then. Systematically starting multiple businesses and new ventures, some of which succeed and some of which never take off, has always been around, but it bucked the prevailing wisdom of the day — go to school, get a good job with good benefits, and settle for stability. Entrepreneurship is anything but financially stable, but in today’s global economy, being an entrepreneur is one of the most stable lives you can build for yourself when accounting for your entire life (emotional, relational, physical, spiritual), and not just money. After working with countless female entrepreneurs, here are 3 thoughts for the female entrepreneur to keep in mind: There are notable female entrepreneurs — Sarah Blakely (Spanx), Anne Beiler (Auntie Anne’s Pretzels), Tory Burch, Debbi Fields, Martha Stewart, and you. And this is just the beginning. Female entrepreneurs have a huge advantage in the marketplace and in leadership roles, given the cultural change in the United States. The dispositions, values, empathy, and heart that ladies bring to business ownership, combined with their business acumen, is the formula for successful leadership that very few men have ever achieved in business. 52 IBA Success Magazine n VOL 4, Issue 2 1. Overcome the innate desire for stability. Most people are wired with the desire for emotional, financial, and relational security and stability, and entrepreneurship is counter-productive to those ob- jectives in the beginning, then morph into the best way of attaining the pureness and fullness of them. If you are going to make it in entrepreneurship, embrace the stability of instability. Embrace that the norm is fluctuation of income and do not derive your sense of life stability from money; rather, attain your stability from your faith, solid, deep relationships, and consistent focus on a single mission and purpose. Do it whether you have a strong support team or not. Do it whether your close friends and family believe you can do it or not. The thing about successful entrepreneurs is that they do not need to require validation of an idea and/or purpose. They must do it regardless. It’s who they are, and who they’re meant to be. It’s how destiny is fulfilled. 2. Reposition what other people think about you. I suggest that you not care what others think about you. But that doesn’t always work. We are human, and we do care. It is how you process what others think and say about you that either stops you dead in your tracks with doubt and discouragement or provides rocket fuel and a determination like they have never seen before. The most successful people in history were bold, and that boldness turned some people off. People either loved or hated them — not much in between unless they’d never heard of them. The same can be described for every single notable entrepreneur. View your haters as fans that just can’t get enough. They will harass, slander, lie, and gossip about you and what you are doing, and you can’t let them be a distraction. Responding to them doesn’t stop them, it just gives their false claims credibility with your acknowledgement of them. The best advice I ever heard was, “This train doesn’t stop for every barking dog.” What people are saying becomes your “reason why” or “reason why not.” I was recently asked if growing up poor was instrumental in my eventual success. I said, “No. A hundred other people grew up in the same backwoods that I did, and they didn’t achieve some magical level of success because they were poor. They used their upbringing as a reason to keep